To keep a relationship going, you need to have chemistry – this includes in and out of the bedroom. If you have hit a rough patch in your sex life, here are some tips on how to add the romance back into your relationship and remember…have fun!
Use Toys
Sex toys don’t always have to be used by yourself! In fact, using g-spot vibrators like the ones you find on HotCherry with your partner can make for a hot night. Don’t be embarrassed or afraid to bring up the idea of using sex toys with your partner. The great thing about sex toys is there are a number of different toys to choose from like vibrators, cock rings, sex swings and more. Plus, there are waterproof toys so that you can enjoy them while in the bath or spa. This means you will be able to find a toy that both you and your partner enjoy.
To really spice things up, pick out sex toys together. Spend the evening browsing all of the different sex toys out there. Each of you can pick out your favorite, then plan a night to use them with each other. This will get you looking forward to something! Experimenting with each other will add a whole other level of intimacy to your relationship.
Be Open!
A healthy relationship is based on trust and communication. And for a healthy sex life, you need to communicate! This means don’t be afraid to open up about your fantasies and what you like to do in the bedroom (this includes using those sex toys!). Have an open mind about what your partner wants to try as well. Think of it as an experimental journey with your partner, you might find something you like that you never thought you would! This will also create a strong bond between you and your partner.
In addition to being open about what you like, you need to also be open to what you don’t like. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try new things. Also, be open to using things to help stimulate your senses, such as pornos. You and your partner can find the perfect porno to get the mood going. Or create your own video for just the two of you to watch.
Enjoy Yourself
The most important thing is that you and your partner are enjoying yourselves. Make sure to really take everything in and enjoy the moment. That means, be open to your senses. Use oils, music and candles to really set the mood. Take advantage of all of your senses, especially touching. Don’t keep your hands to yourself in the bedroom with your partner, this is the time you want to feel good and make your partner feel good too!
Pay attention to how your partner is acting. Make sure they are enjoying themselves as well. You shouldn’t be afraid to take it to the next level with your partner, so try new things and make sure to communicate what you like and don’t like for the best experience in the bedroom.